Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Happiness does not come by chance

Happiness does not come by chanceControl in the form of your married life on your own
Them - the names of Ibchl
If approached days of the couple and watched the actions of each of them for gain, we find that most couples lack the concept of happiness real, in the life of a routine bleak tainted inconvenience and disputes, and a good amount of "Aeknna" and "bile" typically, to be married life accustomed as experienced Everyone, as if the lack of happiness and contentment natural thing in the modern system of marriage.
There is no doubt that happiness does not come by chance, but the product of an effort spouses and insist on the industry happiness, this is dealt with the American writer James Filiet famous in his book "The Power of Conversation - the key to success with people" who confirmed through that within each one of us the power we fail to exploit sometimes , and this strength is the freedom to choose, there are those who choose to poverty, while the position to choose wealth, and some accept failure rather than success simply because the failure easier, and others are afraid of life while that all he needs is to get out of Herngueth courage and the pursuit of their right to them.
The Filiet stressed that the choice of your attitude towards your family upon the same theory applies, you have the ability to choose the atmosphere that lie ahead and hopes in your family, whether it was full of fun, excitement, joy or بالمشاحنات and Almchaksat, It all Ergh you.
Simply


And listed by the story of his uncle, "Warren Roland" This pair Saeed who has 50 years happy with the aunt of the writer, graces happy together, the writer says: I have never heard one of them brought a cruel word to the last, not even seen one for another look angry, and before get married immediately, my uncle asked me and Warren Arouj it to a me to talk, and he asked me, saying: "Do accept advice from your uncle simple old man?" When I replied that I am happy this strongly told me:
"You can enjoy Bsegh happy if you want to you this, and this is what we've done and I aunt at the beginning of our marriage, we have chosen happiness, and if you want for your marriage success, I advise you to do the same: Choose happiness, you will find that it is of the utmost simplicity, if not deliberately complexity of You"
If the choice fell on the same resolution, make sure that you'll find yourself automatically addresses of your family members and good words bug and fun and exhilarating,impossible can choose for yourself happiness Vtabs and shouting roughly in family members, or vary argues with them, Valhauran the Mtnafran.
Give and take

 
Remember base give and take, if you want to take, you should Tbzla first, and if handled tactfully and attention loving compassionate in talking family, this is what you'll get in return, do not expect not to make anything for your family and you get nothing in return, just because it is your family, this policy will not work because you must tread the first step.
All you have to do is choose a happy family life, and you'll find the right words are on the tongue of their own, will make a strenuous effort in search of these words or wondering how to express them.
Even if you are married for a long time and it seems that things are not going in the right direction, you should note that the time is not too late to take the decision to live an existence happy with a life partner, when you choose happiness, you will find compassion and civility Aglvan every word تتفوه, and no matter how things looked bad in Some times, know they always get better if you made this decision simple, just choose to be happy.
Password optimistic


He advised Uncle Roland Filiet writer that has to start his day with optimism, saying: promises to yourself to start your day with optimism, and that also is made extremely wise choice personally, you can be happy or miserable, whatever your decision.
Take a salute your partner a cheerful tone, saying: "Good morning, my dear .. it looks like you took a great deal of comfort you look great this morning,"
 
It is possible to start you and your family all enjoy life if you start your day with pleasure and a smile and a good word not to complain and attack.

 
Say to yourself that will be the best day in your life, will turn to the best day actually, yestrday of the over, and tomorrow is not yet come, and so you should focus on making your day a distinct, if hired this behavior Vtsaad of all members of your family.
Asked the writer once an associate at work smiling always looking for the secret of happiness replied, saying: "It's easy, My wife wake me up every day that put her hand gently on my forehead and says:" It's time waking up, my dear, the atmosphere is bright this morning, I have prepared you your coffee and you'll find the morning newspaper on dining table .. I love you "how not to feel happy after this morning's greeting every day.

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